Sea, Sky, Wind and Comments

When I first began journaling here, I kept the comment link open and there was lots of lively conversation. And then suddenly the comment gadget on this blog malfunctioned and the comments on all of my posts kept disappearing.

In the morning I'd find a long string of comments, and I responded to each one, and the next day the all of the comments and my responses were gone. As if they washed in and then out again like seashells rolling in and out with the tide. 

I began to think of comments as writing in the sand, here in the morning and gone with the tide by afternoon. I also got to thinking about how I wanted to save those comments, like I once collected shells along the shore, my pockets bulging. 
Then I discovered the joy of collecting less, and silence, and feeling happy empty, or full, open to what comes and goes, like the beach. And that's when I decided to keep the comments closed, and to set my readers free. 

While feedback and conversation can be a nice thing to enjoy, silence is not always an easy thing to find. 
I want my readers to feel welcome to stop by, lurk and explore within cubby-hole moments of quiet, without anyone feeling obligated to say anything. 

But if you would like to make a comment, or have a conversation, please feel welcome to send me an email. 




When you write, you lay out a line of words. The line of words is a miner’s pick, a wood-carver’s gouge, a surgeon’s probe. You wield it, and it digs a path you follow. Soon you find yourself deep in new territory. Is it a dead end, or have you located the real subject? You will know tomorrow, or this time next year. —Annie Dillard


We Who Walk the Seven Ways is Terra Trevor’s memoir about seeking healing and finding belonging. After she endured a difficult loss, a circle of Native women elders embraced and guided Trevor (mixed-blood Cherokee, Lenape, Seneca, and German) through the seven cycles of life in Indigenous ways. Over three decades, these women lifted her from grief, instructed her in living, and showed her how to age from youth into beauty. 

With tender honesty, Trevor explores how every ending is always a beginning. Her reflections on the deep power of women’s friendship, losing a child, reconciling complicated roots, and finding richness in every stage of life show that being an American Indian with a complex lineage is not about being part something, but about being part of something. 

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“Terra Trevor’s memoir is a gentle invitation to journey with her across decades, an invitation to notice with her as she seeks healing and finds belonging. There were phrases and sentences I underlined, places where I wept, passages that will remain with me as they drew me to insights I’d previously struggled to name. I closed the final pages and knew that in reading this book, I had been the recipient of a generous and much-needed gift. While I can certainly finish a book in a day, I chose to move slowly through this one, letting each idea, each paragraph, each reflection gently spill over me, allowing the pages to alter me in some way.” —Patrice Gopo, author of Autumn Song: Essays on Absence

 "Terra Trevor’s Pushing up the Sky is a revelation of the struggles and triumphs packed into the hyphens between Korean and Native American and American. From her, we learn that adoption can best be mutual, that the adoptive parent needs acculturation in the child’s ways. With unflinching honesty and unfailing love, Trevor details the risks and heartaches of taking in, the bittersweetness of letting go, and the everlasting bonds that grow between them all. With ‘Pushing up the Sky’, the ‘literature of adoption’ comes of age as literature, worthy of an honored place in the human story." —Robert Bensen, editor of Children of the Dragonfly: Native American Voices on Child Custody and Education